Here is the sentence from the Patrick Henry's speech to the Virginia Convention where the word "reconciled" is used:
"Why stand we here idle? What is it that gentlemen wish? What would they have? Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, give me liberty or give me death!"
In this context, Patrick Henry is encouraging the colonists to fight for their freedom from British rule. He is contrasting the desire for peace and security with the desire for liberty, arguing that liberty is so important that it is worth fighting for, even if it means risking one's life. He is not suggesting that the colonists should give up or reconcile with the British government.